There is a version of you that got you here. And there is a version of you trying to get you to where you are going next. They cannot both be in the driver's seat. If you have been feeling like you are outgrowing yourself — like the roles, relationships, and stories that used to fit are now feeling constricting — that feeling is not a problem. That feeling is information. So how do you know when a version of you is ready to be released?